There are 4 things I learned when I was 25:
You do not have to be affectionate all the time to care for someone, in fact, caring can also mean a couple of texts or silence for a few days while you both live your lives happily and separately.
People do not care for you less when they’re busy with their own lives. It’s your reaction to them being their own person - and your ability to make yourself happy - that determines how they feel about you.
Not everyone reciprocates to your actions the same way. If you want someone to acknowledge, be interested in, or treat you a certain way for your efforts, all you have to do is let them know. They will try their personal best to accommodate that within their personal spectrum of feelings.
No one owes you 100% of them, not even after 30 years, because someone having a percentage of themselves is what keeps them sane at the end of the day and that’s okay.
These things are so important to learn.
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Cara mia. Mon sauvage.
The Addams Family (1991) dir. Barry Sonnenfeld
Best Part by Daniel Caeser feat. H.E.R.
Export your blog
Heres a link to learn how to export your whole blog at once instead of having to manually find all of your own photos
I will warn you as a 8 year tumblr user, it took 24 hours for my blog to export
TumblRipper is another that I’m trying right now because this blog export I posted didn’t work the first time I tried
Alternatives to Tumblr if Yahoo goes any further
- Soup.io - well-known alternative to Tumblr. Reblogging, post types, themes, collab blogs, dashboard, artsy, great community already there. Soup can auto-import everything you’ve posted on Tumblr.
- TypePad - Includes reblogging. Dashboard and post types similar to Tumblr.
- Jux - Artful posts, beautiful blogging experience
Reblogging cause one day it just may be neccessary.
It became necessary
“Well, a lot of this album came to me in my dreams, so I was able to document those. I became a more fearless writer and producer all round, I’m not afraid to make mistakes. I used to be a perfectionist, and then I started to be unafraid to fail, not afraid to make mistakes, and then a lot of great things came out of my voice, a lot of character came out of it, and I was able to stretch outside of anybody’s expectations of what I could do. I transformed into a more evolved person, an artist.” - The ArchAndroid (Suites II and III) 18.05.2010
A Steel-driving Man • John Henry • ⚒🧔🏿⚒• I drew this earlier this year but never posted it. #johnhenry is a major figure in my pantheon of personal heroes. I’ve always been fascinated by his story of individual supernatural strength and how it was balanced by an unflinching instinct to fight for those around him. His story is one I hope to retell and expand upon with my own personal musings on the responsibilities one has to their family vs their neighbors, how those with power handle that balance, and how their families and neighbors are affected by their choices.
#bornwithahammerinhishand #sketch #mymarks #procreate #ipadpro
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